Living And Dying With Dignity
Living and dying on your own terms is a great privilege.
In fact, it’s one of the great privileges we humans have. This is true even if everyone doesn’t actually achieve that ideal. And, now we Americans are also paying more attention to how we die.
Dying with dignity and on your own terms is deeply important. By default, medical professionals focus on preserving life unless directed otherwise. That’s why end-of-life treatment declarations matter.
These documents clearly communicate your wishes to your loved ones and care team. They guide decisions during sudden illness, accidents, or periods of diminished consciousness.
The COVID-19 pandemic highlighted how many life-sustaining treatments are available, such as intubation. It also reminded us how quickly circumstances can change. Having your preferences documented ensures your voice is heard when it matters most.
The Purpose Of An Advance Directive, Living Will Or Healthcare Power of Attorney
The terms advance directive, living will, and healthcare power of attorney are often used interchangeably. While they can have distinct parts, they all serve a similar purpose. They document your wishes for medical care if you lose the ability to make decisions.
These documents allow you to name a healthcare agent, also called a proxy. This person ensures your wishes are followed if you cannot speak for yourself. That includes decisions about starting, withholding, or withdrawing life-sustaining treatment.
Write Detailed Information About What You Want And What You Don’t Want
Many people just assume that their family members will know what their wishes are and what to do during their final days. But, according to deathwithdignity.org, “data show few Americans have had detailed conversations about their wishes for end-of-life care.” https://deathwithdignity.org/advance-directive/
Along with designating a healthcare power of attorney, you may want to include a list of people you do not want making healthcare decisions for you.
Be very clear and make sure there is no room for confusion on these points which could lead to tensions among your loved ones as you are dying.
To get the process started, begin by asking yourself some questions. For instance have you defined what a good death means and looks like to you? And if you are sick or injured, what defines a life worth living How long are you willing to prolong life if you are being breathed and fed by machines?
Dying is part of living and both, living and dying well are within our wherewithal to create.
Take the time to think through what you want—and then take the steps to make sure your wishes are carried out.
If you have questions about end-of-life medical directives, give our office a call. Most clients feel a strong sense of relief after completing this process. Their loved ones feel that same relief, knowing they won’t have to make these difficult decisions on their own.
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